Yippee!!

I just finished my 51 page personal profile! (J only has a couple of pages left in his.) I can't tell you how many hours we have put into them and it feels great to be done. The profiles are for our home study and they are full of questions that ask about EVERY aspect of our life. Once we get these turned in and our references in, our social worker can begin the interview process. It feels good to see the process moving forward a bit.

AGCI Gathering

Yesterday, J and I attended a potluck in Seattle for AGCI families. We had such a great time and met so many wonderful people. There were families who were already home with their adopted children, some waiting to travel, some waiting for referrals and some chasing paper like we are right now. We were very happy to meet a couple who are just starting the process for Ethiopia like we are and they live pretty close to us.

It was uplifting to see so many kids home with their forever families and doing so well. There were 5 adorable babies from Ethiopia, twin girls from China and two little boys from Guatemala.

We also got to meet our caseworker, who we are talking to weekly as we get through all the requirements, and our social worker. Both who are so helpful and will make this process as easy as it can be.

Brothers & Sisters

E is the most affectionate child. He loves his big sister more than anything. When he wakes up in the morning, the first thing he says isn't mommy or daddy, it's diddy (L in E speak.) I am so excited to see this love that God gave them for each other grow and extend to their new sister.

The paper chase begins...

We had our orientation phone call on Friday. AGCI (All God's Children International) led us through the steps in the adoption process.

Right now there is plenty to do and a place for us to focus all our attention. We received our Home Study packet on Thursday and are beginning the process of getting everything together for it. A Home Study is something all adoptive and foster parents complete in their state of residence. Once completed, it basically states that we are fit people to parent. Why you don't have to go through one of these to have a biological child I don't know! Some of the requirements are very simple like getting fingerprinted and gathering copies of birth certificates. Others are a little more daunting. J and I have to separately complete a 50 page personal profile. It feels kind of like taking a test that you really don't want to fail, because the stakes are so high.

We have signed all the paperwork and one of J's lovely sisters is coming to notarize them all this afternoon before I drop them in the mail tomorrow. Once AGCI receives this round of paperwork, we will be assigned a case manager and receive our Dossier (more paperwork). Our dossier includes the home study, and is basically a set of legal documents that will include our marriage license, birth certificates, financial statements, medical records, etc.

I know that for us the hardest part will be in several months when all this paperwork is done and we have to begin the waiting game. Once everything is approved and translated, we will have 2-6 months to wait for a referral for a child. Once we accept the referral, we wait 3-5 months for it to reach the Ethiopian courts. The courts approve the adoption and then we are invited to come and pick up our baby. We will try to keep ourselves busy during this time by focusing on fundraising. We plan to do a car wash or two, have a dinner of some sorts and a garage sale.

We are overwhelmed with the support we are receiving from our family and friends . Thanks for being excited for us and for keeping us in your prayers. We are so thankful that God has blessed us with such wonderful love and support!

Tree of Memories

We almost didn't get a tree this year. The month seemed to be passing by so quickly. Last Sunday it started snowing during church, so we decided to take the kids out and get a tree.


Out of all the preparations for Christmas, the tree has always been my favorite. Our trees were never the fancy color-coordinated ones. Our tree is always a tree of memories. From the time I was born I received ornaments from my grandmothers to commemorate each passing year. Each special and unique in its own way. After my grandmothers passed away, my mom kept up the tradition and has added to our ornament collection each year. As I unpack them each Christmas I am reminded of the love with which each was given. At Christmas, I realize that that love is nothing compared to the perfect and unconditional love God has for each of us. I hope you all are able to find that love this season.

A new journey begins

J and I have always talked about adopting internationally. Over the past 6 months or so, God kept putting the idea on our hearts and with E getting older it seemed like the right time to start the process. God brought several families into our lives that were in various stages of the adoption process, but all of them had used the same agency and had good experiences with them, so we too will be using All God’s Children International (AGCI).

J and I had always talked about adopting from China, but after investigating the process in the countries AGCI works with and the countries themselves, we really felt God leading us to Africa. AGCI has an orphan care and adoption program in Ethiopia. We have just completed our application and I am mailing it today. It will be 10-13 months before we can travel to pick up our child. There are papers, interviews, fundraising and waiting to go through between now and then, since we are at the very beginning stages of a long process.

We are very excited. For us this is just like being pregnant, only the labor pains will be a little different this time around! We are also a little nervous, but know that we are being faithful to what God has called us to do and with Him on our side nothing is impossible.